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Saturday, September 20, 2008

One Angry Mother!

I have restrained myself up until now and NO MORE will I hold back! The truth will be known to all about how my son and I were treated as he went to his school that is located in upstate SC. I would add which area we live in but I do not feel safe doing that at this time. However, I plan to start a blog specifically on the topic of how this school mistreated my son and took advantage of me, my own disabilities, and how I was bullied into taking an entry off of this blog and the only reason I did it was because I was terrified of retaliation.

It is my hope that everyone in the public school system reads this and especially the new blog because the truth needs to be exposed and this is my only avenue and the last resort because apparently the school district and even the assistant superintendent admits to telling the principal to tell me to take my entry off of the blog! That is an outrage and I will not stand for it and I am tired of sitting around and doing nothing about it. I am protected by the first amendment and there is not a damn thing that they can do about read on people and I hope that you are all squirming in your seats as you get upset and perhaps you will wish that you had done things differently and that you had treated my son and I with more respect and that you had followed the laws, the federal laws more closely. You know damn well that you broke laws, especially the teacher who was such a coward that she couldn't even talk to me! Yes, you! You didn't even follow your own policies and procedures...........such as, having the parent/teacher conferences that you were supposed to have after my son got a "red" light on his daily report. What is your lousy explanation for that? You are an EMR and you are not even qualified to teach a child with autism. You punished my child for being autistic and I plan to make public all the reports that you sent home so that they all can see how you wrote negative reports nearly every single day and even though I begged you to write something positive you absolutely refused.

I know what kind of gossip goes on with all of you who seem to not know how to mind your own damn business and seem to think that you can judge people and then treat their children accordingly. You may think that because I was kind that I was stupid as well. You made the major mistake to think that my kindness was weakness. I have seen more of life than all of you combined and traveled all over the world and never...............NEVER have I seen such pitiful people who desperately need a life instead of putting your nose in mine and thinking that my son didn't deserve to be treated with kindness and respect.

Through this blog and through the new blog I am going to do everything in my power to get the truth out there and let people know what you are all about. You may all stick together which is fine but it will not help you now, there is nothing that one or all of you can do to stop me!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who is in charge now? You will regret all that you have done and you all will be exposed.

Have you figured out that I am ONE ANGRY MOTHER yet? Please people, stay tuned, it will provide you with plenty to gossip about and this time the source of the gossip will be YOU! I cannot wait for you to read my new blog and to be haunted by your handiwork. I am excited for everyone to see the papers that my son was sent home with and all that he was punished for...........such as, for being autistic! I hope that you realize that I have tons of readers and my new blog will have just as many if not more due to my efforts to make it so.

You all have miserably failed my son and he lost an entire year of education and learning skills and perhaps he suffered in your "care" because of his mistreatment. Paybacks are hell people!!!!


Hope Greenwood said...

What's the new blog?

Anonymous said...

Is this person one of Griffin's aides? I do feel for you...A LOT!

I am sure the district was completely out of compliance on many issues. Most are. Please called the Dept. of Education in your state and file a formal complaint (maybe you already have) against the district and don't hesitate to go to due process if they did indeed neglect his education by not following the IEP the laws and so on. Wasting a child's time and life is inexcusable and they should be held accountable, legally.

KC's Blog said...

Iwill most definitely stayed tuned and please know we have friends in high places and they will be watching as well. This is an outrage, it's horrible the way that THEY believe a child should be taught/punished! Girl you keep everything on YOUR blog.
Griffin is such a joy, wonderful little boy. I am furious that they are doing to you an Griffin, I guess some folks actually believe they can violate or rights and actually get away with it? That may be true for some people but they are barking up thr wrong tree when it comes to you and Griffin.
We support you guys always and love you dearly. You know we will be watching and reading.

Much love to you and that special boy!

Melissa H said...

Ohhhhhh, girl. If this becomes something even bigger than a lawsuit, know that I am prepared to pull out every damn pink slip, suspension threat and correspondence between those pitiful teachers of Conor's in my school district from '06-07. The south SUCKS when it comes to special needs education!!
You fight the fight and know that we are right behind you!!!


Anonymous said... is also a very help website with lots of good information regarding special ed law (IDEA). Pam and Pete Wright have also written several books on the subject. Make sure to document every single violation and I would move forward with contacting the DOE and filing due process if need be. These districts must understand that they are dealing with children's lives and futures. It is one big game to them which is quite simply disgusting. I wish people in the special ed field who had that attitude would just get out of the industry and go find a job doing something else and stop wasting the kids' precious time. Unethical is the only word for people like this.

Anonymous said...

WOW!! Lora you go girl. I have been waiting for a new post-and we sure got one!! I SO know about those schools in that town. Bring it on sister.

Amy in CO