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Friday, February 04, 2011

Just a Little Behind

I have had so much to do in the past few days and I just haven't had time to sit down and write in the blog. I took Griffin to see Dr. Sankey, the behavior specialist, and got his eval and there is nothing on it that is really big news, his verbal IQ is a 76 (well below average) and his non-verbal IQ is a 98 which is average. So that just goes to show that he has a great degree of difficulty with his communication. I have sent an e-mail to my friend at the Autism Society about my communication with Griffin...or the lack thereof...and asked how I can improve upon it, if there was a book out there that might help. I have "Talk Ability" which helps because it teaches one how to talk to the autistic individual but doesn't give me actual conversations/sentences that I could use for him. I am having a hard time keeping the conversations going with the words that he comes up with, which are few.  Anyhow, she is going to forward the e-mail to the speech and language folks that she knows to see how they can help.

I am due to begin my English literature (online) class on Monday and am feeling kind of stressed about it because I don't know how I am going to handle the workload and juggle everything else but it's not as though I haven't done it before with other classes so I don't know what I am so worried about! It's just that I have a high propensity for anxiety due to my PTSD and so I get charged up more easily, and I guess just because it is something new and new things bother me. I almost didn't get my class on time and I am going to get my book one day late but I guess that shouldn't be too big of a problem.

3 comments:

SuperLittleMen said...

good luck with your English Literature class x

Crystal Jigsaw said...

Good on you for doing a qualification, quite an achievement in itself together with raising a child with autism.

It would be very helpful if we could have a self-help book that took us through the trials of autism. But it just isn't the case. Makes it all the more rewarding for we parents when we get it right.

Best wishes, CJ xx

Chris P-M said...

My son has very low verbal ability too....we're working so hard on it!

Good luck in your class. It's normal to be anxious...be good to yourself :)

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