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Friday, May 12, 2006

Thanks To My Mother



As Mother's Day approaches I think of all that I am grateful for having such a wonderful mother that I do. I begin to remember the tough times as well as the most beautiful ones and it gives me pause to think how fortunate I really am. My earliest memories are of times of comfort and affection, receiving hugs at night and a sweet kiss on the forehead and I just knew that I was truly loved. I recall a time when I was really sick as a child and had to be hospitalized because the doctors didn't know why I had been vomiting and although I don't remember many details I do recall that it wasn't a bad time for me because my mother was always right there by my side. There was the times that us kids were probably quite annoying to my mom, after all there was three of us and at times we didn't want to leave her alone. Once when my mom wanted to go to the grocery store and us kids were hounding her to go with her and I remember her saying something to the effect of, "Can't I go anywhere without you kids?" at the time I didn't understand and it hurt my feelings but I do understand now because my mom must have felt overwhelmed and needed some space especially since she was with us 24/7 every day of the year without a break. I know what it's like to need space and time alone and how essential it is to good mental health. My mom must have desperately needed some time alone and we weren't about to give it to her so easily. Now I can laugh about times like these and relish the memories of the more pleasant times because being a mom myself I can relate to what my mother must have been going through. During the day of honor to our mother's I would like to say that I could never had a better mother than the one that I was so blessed with and even though I may not have understood why things were the way they were at the time, I do understand now that my mother was the most caring, affectionate, loving, and generous mom that I could have ever imagined having. I realize that it's not Mother's Day yet but I ask, why must it be just one day out of the entire year? My mother deserves praise and adoration throughout the year so here's three cheers for my mom and all that she has done for me from the discipline to the sweet kisses on the forehead she is my #1 and I just want to say "Thank You" and that I hope that I can be as good a mother as she has been to me.

5 comments:

Wendy said...

"...I hope that I can be as good a mother as she has been to me."

You already are.

Happy Mother's Day!

K.C.'sMommy said...

Happy Mother's Day Lora! You are a wonderful Mommy and a dear friend.

Tina and Boys

Mamaroo said...

A VERY HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO YOU, LORA!

Ann said...

For you I also wish you a special Mother's day in some way, whether it be going out with your sonshine or being able to talk with your friends. Yes it is hard for the 24/7 shifts but you do whatever you must for those you have unconditional love. And I have no doubt that it is hard for you also but griffin will always be there giving you those hugs,snuggles, and kisses. It is the small things that the Mothers remember and the kids stach away a few in that memory bank for later on in life. You are a good,caring, mother and i'm proud of you.

Kiralea Powell said...

Lora

Your mother did everything right raising you, because it shows the way you are with Griffin, whether he was not a special needs child you would i believe made him your everything. What a beautiful way to show your love and understanding of the most precious person in your life.

I know my mother is my everything and i think we should all show at times our gratitude to the most important person in our life.... our mothers!

take care